
Our lovely son Rory was born in April 1997 when his sister was 21 months old.
We started having concerns about Rory when he was about 17 months old.
We now realise those concerns were the first signs that Rory was autistic. We
saw a consultant on Rory’s 2nd birthday. Despite indications then that Rory was
on the autistic spectrum, it was 9 months before we got a formal diagnosis. That
came in December 1999 when we were told that Rory was on the severe end of the
spectrum.
During those 9 months (full of emotional roller coasters) we
started to learn more and more about the mysteries of autism (and we’re still
learning!). We immediately started 2 important interventions
Rory has a team of 4 tutors who, between them work on a 1:1 basis with Rory
approx. 35-hours/week 48 weeks/year. They follow set programmes and targets but
ensure they make learning lots of fun and functional! Rory’s supervisor visits ½
day per month to review progress and set the priorities for the coming month. We
have had 2 visits from American consultants to give overall direction to the
programme.
The ABA approach has worked for Rory. It is based on sound
principles, which help us all teach Rory new skills as well as deal with
behavioural issues. The programme is intensive - Rory does not soak up
information like a sponge in the way that typical children do. He needs to be
shown how to learn hence the importance of “putting in the hours”.
Within teaching hours Rory attends his local mainstream school
(currently 8 hours a week). This gives him the opportunity to mix with and learn
from his peers and be part of his local community. We are very lucky to have an
“inclusive” school in our neighbourhood. Rory is supported in school by one of
his ABA tutors - an agreement that helps in terms of flexibility and
consistency.
Since starting his ABA programme and as a direct result of almost 4000 hours
1:1 teaching, Rory has made sure and steady progress. He is a happy little boy
who can cope in lots of different and new situations – something not to be taken
for granted with an autistic child. He still does not speak but can communicate
most of his needs by using Makaton – a sign language http://www.makaton.org/. Makaton has been a great
breakthrough for Rory (and us all!). If you want to learn some basic signs we
would recommend the nursery rhyme video starring Dave Benson Phillips (available
from Makaton)
After positive experiences at 2 local mainstream
playgroups we talked to our local primary school and with their support Rory
started there in September 2002 (see above). We are delighted that our little
boy with his “severe” diagnosis has got this far. Well done Rory!
Like any other parents, all we want for Rory is for him to be happy
and to be allowed to reach his potential, whatever that may be. We do not
believe that Rory is ever going to “recover” from autism – but we do hope that
we can provide him with the means to cope as well as possible in a world where
people will not always be sympathetic to his particular needs.
Our special thanks go to ….