Speaking as a woman and
mum, it was the dads that started it. DoJoTo, that's Don, John
and Tom in website jargon. Our sons played league football for
another team for two seasons. Don was the first to become
disenchanted and we started to discuss finding somewhere else
for our lads to play. Where we played there were no
facilities, oh, apart from McDonalds. The Happy Meal bill was
running up alarmingly! The big problem though was with team
organisation, or to be more specific, the lack of it.
As you may well know,
at kids' football matches the parents tend to clump together
in their own little groups. Debbie (John's wife) and myself
always ended up with Don. We laughed at his endless supply of
jokes and anecdotes and listened to him shout himself hoarse,
usually all directed at his son, Greg. Rachel (Don's better
half) had much more sense. She would stand on the opposite
side of the pitch and watch the match in relative peace and
tranquillity.
Anyway, one cold damp
Sunday morning, with our lads doing their best and in the
process of taking another confidence-sapping beating, Don
approached Debbie and me about setting up a new team between
the three sets of parents. After we had finished laughing, we
realised that he was deadly serious so we went along with the
idea.
Within a couple of
weeks Don was telling us that he had found the perfect place
and would we like to come down and have a look. Don then took
us to see the pitch and 'facilities' at Banks. Impressed
wasn't the word. They had proper changing rooms with showers
and toilets (no more peeing behind the bushes - Tom).
Chairs to sit on and also a car park! Compared to what we were
used to it was like Old Trafford! Best of the lot, there was
no McDonalds so that would save us a fortune. We were told by
the people in charge at Banks that as long as we encouraged
local boys we would more or less have a free hand to run an
under 9s team.
After much discussion,
the DoJoTo and wives decided to give it a go. We advertised
for players in the local school and within three weeks had a
squad of 13 players of differing abilities. Banks JFC promptly
entered us into the Craven Minor League and WHAM, our boys
were happy again. They were playing football. By boys I mean
the men, of course. Well, to be more precise Don and Tom. John
was content to sit at home and concentrate on our website (and
go to work! - John).
I know you must be
thinking what happened to the three girls- Debbie, Heather and
Rachel. Well, we didn't become Charlie's new Angels, we did
all the hard work like sorting out kit, getting the right
size, ordering equipment and registering players (it's all
lies - Tom). Oh, I forgot to mention collecting money and
going to meetings (more lies - Tom. Kindly shut up,
Tom, I'm telling the story. OK dearest, whatever you say-
Tom). The men just continued to kick a ball around playing
at being coaches. I am beginning to wonder. Did they set this
team up for their benefit or the boys? You tell me.
All this was happening
in May and June 2002. Within that time we could see everything
coming together. The boys were really enjoying it and the
parents were too. July came and went, and August, the
anticipation of our first match loomed over us. It must be the
same kind of feeling Alex Ferguson gets when he watches
Manchester United go out for the first match of the season.
The build up as September approached was unbearable.
We has started to see
some structure in the team and the boys were working hard to
improve their skills. 8th September arrived, Ormskirk West
End, away, anticipation, were they good? will we lose by
loads? will the boys get stagestruck?
You can see the outcome
and visit the match reports elsewhere on this site. In the
meantime, I hope we continue with our success at Banks and
that the boys will stay with us until they are 16. What a
scary thought.
Heather
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