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Name: Michael Freedman - also known as Mike

Jewish name: Moishe ben Yehudah Uriah

Born: 1948

Married with two sons

I am a Jew. I am an Englishman. I am a Londoner, I am a husband, a father, a son. I am a teacher. I am also lots of other things... They all play a part in my sense of my own identity.

Although I am not a particularly observant Jew, being Jewish is a core part of what makes me the person I am. Judaism, and my experience of it, influences my daily life in many ways. It has strongly influenced my sense of morality, my sense of family, my musical, artistic and literary preferences, my interests, my sense of humour, my culinary tastes, my sense of belonging (and of estrangement). Indeed, Judaism has coloured my whole world view.

I enjoy being Jewish - no I love being Jewish. I love the sense of being part of such a long tradition, the sense of connection with countless generations of people before me and yet to come. I love the ceremonies and the celebrations. I love the sense of rootedness that I feel when I take part both in the annual cycle of festivals and in more everyday observances.

Leonard Cohen once said that he "grew up steeped deep in Judaism". I knew exactly what he meant because it is just how I feel. My maternal grandparents were observant, middle of the road, orthodox, Polish-born Jews, who came to England in the early part of the 20th century. My paternal grandmother was equally orthodox. Also Polish in origin, she was born here, but only just. I never knew my father's father, who died during the War.

My parents were less observant but we were members of the United Synagogue in Highate, London. I and my brother spent a lot of time at our grandparents' house. It was just round the corner and we usually went there for a couple of hours after school (until our parents got home from work). Throughout my childhood I took time off school for all the festivals and went to shul (the synagogue) for the festival services. We usually went to my grandparents house for the Shabbos meal on a Friday night and attended Cheder (Sunday classes). Sometimes we would go to Shabbos morning services, sometimes we wouldn't! For a couple of years in my mid-teens I was a regular and serious synagogue goer and di my best to be observant (my teenage rebellion?) but later ...

... For many years after our marriage, Judith (my wife) and I had very little contact with organised Judaism, but maintained our links through family celebrations of the major festivals, particularly Pesach (Passover). Our "return to the fold" was precipitated by our eldest son's desire for a Bar Mitzvah.

Although we both grew up in orthodox communities we feel far more comfortable belonging to  a progressive community, Wimbledon and District Synagogue, which is a member of the Reform Synagogues of Great Britain.

At Wimbledon I have served as a member of the synagogue council and am the community's deputy representative to the Merton SACRE (Standing Advisory Council for Religious Education).

I am (and have been for many years) a primary school teacher in the London Borough of Merton.

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