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;f]x| ;+:sf/x?df ;aeGbf d'Vo tyf dxTjk')f{ ;+:sf/ 'ljjfx' xf] . of] ;+:sf/ g} s]jn ;Dk')f{ cf>dx?sf] d'n cfwf/ xf] lsGt" ;d:t ;[li^sf] g} d'n sf/)f xf] . ljwftfn] :qL / k"?ifnfO{ ljk/Lt r"Dalso cfsif{)f k|bfg u/]sf %g\ h;sf] kmn:j?k g/-gf/L Ps csf{ k|lt cfslif{t eP/ ;[li^sf] k/Dk/f sfod /fVg / cfkm" hGd]sf] p@]Zosf] kl/k'lt{ ug{ k|]l/t x"G%g\ . oxL cfsif{)f k|f)fL dfqsf] lj:tf/sf] sf/)f xf] . t/ dfgj hfltn] o;nfO{ Ps ljz]if ';+:sf/' sf] ?k lbP/ o; k|lqmofnfO{ cToGt kl/is[t u/]sf] % . ljleGg d"n"s, ljleGg ;Eotfx?df o;nfO{ ljleGg ?k lbOPsf] % . j}lbs k/Dk/fdf 'ljjfx' nfO{ b"O{ k|f)fLsf] lar, ;"v-b"Mv, /f]u-lg/f]u, o"jf-a[$fj:yf cyf{t\ hLjg ko{Gt ;fy lgjf{x ug]{ Ps b[(-k|lt!fsf] ?k lbOPsf] % . o; k|lqmofdf efjL bDktLnfO{ ljjflxt hLjgsf] lhDd]bf/Lsf] af/]df lj:t[t ?kn] !fg lb+b} u[x:y cf>ddf k|j]z ug{ ;+sNk ug{ cfJxfg u/LG% . efjL hLjgsf] ;"v-zflGtsf] nflu j/-jw'nfO{ o; ;+:sf/ cGtu{t k|lt!f-a$ u/fOG% . o; k|lt!fsf] cefjdf u[x:y-hLjg lkmtnf] x"g ;Sb% / cg]s ;d:of pTkGg ug{ ;Sb% . t/ o; af/]df vf; u/]/ kfZrfTo d"n"sx?df kf/kfr"s]sf] -ljjfx ^"^g]_ ;+Vofdfa[l$, Single parents / pregnancy df a[l$ - OToflb k|r"n pbfx/)fsf] kl/k|]Ifdf w]/} eGg" kg]{ b]lvGg . o; ;Gbe{df ljjfx jf/] xfd|f] j}lbs k/Dk/fsf] b'/blz{tf b]v]/ crDd g dfgL /xg ;lsGg .

ljjfx ;+:sf/sf] d"VotM rf/ c+u %g\ . -1_ j/-dfnf, -2_ sGof-bfg, -3_ kfl)f-u|x)f tyf -4_ ;KtkbL .

1= j/-dfnf -Exchange of Garlande_ M

of] jf:tjdf k|frLg ':jo+j/' -self choice_ sf] cfw"lgs ?kfGt/ xf] . :jo+j/sf] cy{ xf] jw' cyf{t b"nxLJbf/f cfkm\gf] :j]R%f cg";f/ j/ cyf{t b"nxf /f]Hg" . xfdL ;j}nfO{ ljbLt} % ls k|frLg sfndf /fhf-dxf/fhfx?sf] baf{/df j/sf] pDd]bjf/ eP/ cg]slgs /fhs"df/x? Ps k+lQmdf pleGy] . clg /fhs"df/Ln] bj} xfyn] 'j/-dfnf' lnP/ cfkm\gf] O{R%fg";f/ h;nfO{ dfNofk{)f uly{g Tof] pDd]bjf/ g} j/ x"GYof] . ;Ltf / >L /fdsf] ljjfx o;} u/L ePsf] lyof] . s]^Ln] s]^f /f]Hg] of] k|yf s;/L / slxn] kl/jlt{t eP/ s]^fn] s]^L /f]Hg] k|yfdf ab\Nof] of] cjZog} cg";Gwfgsf] rfv nfUbf] ljifo % .

ljjfx u/Lg" cl# j/-jw' b"j}sf] cf-cfkm\gf] #/df z"l$s/)f k|lqmof u/LG% h; pk/fGt vf; u/]/ b"nxLsf] ?k, nfj)odf Ps k|sf/sf] cg"kd cf]h, cfef, emNs]sf] n]vsn] cfkm}+n] cg"ej u/]sf %g\ . o;nfO{ af]n rfnsf] efiffdf '?k-r(]sf]' eGb%g\ . To;kl% b"nxf / b"nxL, hf] ls o; ;df/f]xsf] nflu ljz]if eJo kf]zfsdf ;";lHht eP/ cfPsf x"G%g\, b"j}nfO{ d)*k:yn lt/ nluG% hxf¤ ls b"j}n] xfydf j/-dfnf lnP/ Ps csf{sf] ;fd"Gg] pleG%g\ . clg k"/f]lxtn] a}lbs Crfx?sf] kf& ub}{ ;j{k|yd b"nxfn] b"nxLnfO{ clg To; kZrft\ b"nxLn] b"nxfnfO{ dfnf klx¥ofpg cg"/f]w ub{%g\ . dfnfsf] k/:k/ cfbfg-k|bfgn] j/-aw'n] cf}krfl/s ?kdf Ps csf{nfO{ hLjg-;fyLsf] ?kdf :jLsf/ u/]sf] hgfp¤b% . To;kl% ljjfxsf] k/Dk/fut ;df/f]xsf] cf/+e x"G% . b"nxf b"nxL b"j}n] o!j]bLsf] ghlbs cf-cfkm\gf] :yfg u|x)f ul/;s] kl% b"nxLn] b"nxfnfO{ vfgsf] nflu 'dw"ks{' lbG%Lg . dw"ks{ - bxL, dx / dSvgsf] ld>)f xf] / cEofutsf] cfb/ ;Tsf/sf] nflu ;j{k|yd lbOg] pQd k|fs[lts vfB kbfy{ xf] .

sGof bfgsf] hlt pRr cfbz{ j}lbs ;Eotfdf % Tolt c? s"g} klg ;Detfdf b]lvGg . To;}sf/)fn] ;a} k|sf/sf] bfgx?df sGofbfgnfO{ ;jf]{kl/ dflgPsf] % . b"nxLsf] cfdfafa"n] b"nxLsf] bflxg] xft hn-wf/f / d+un WjgLsf] lar b"nxfsf] bflxg] xft dfyL /flvlbG%g\ / ljjfxsf] z"ef/+d ug]{ cg"dlt lbG%g\ . To;kl% b"nxfn] b"nxLnfO{ :jLsf/ ub{% / ltgLnfO{ ;"Gb/ j:q / uxgf-u"/Lofsf] pkxf/ k|bfg ub{% . sxL+ sxL+ of] k|yf cf}+&Lsf] cfbfg k|bfg u/]/ k'/f u/LG% . To;kl% o! s")*df clUg k|HHjlnt u/L xjg\ sf] sfo{ z"? u/LG% . -o! cyf{t xjg\sf] dxTjsf] af/]df n]vsn] cGoq ljj]rg\ ug]{%g\ ._

3= kfl)f-u|x)fM

of] ;+:s[t zAbsf] cIf/zM cy{ xf] xft yfDg" jf :jLsf/ ug"{ . cyf{t\ b"nxLsf] cfdfafa"n] sGofbfg ub{%g / b"nxfn] kfl)fu|x)f ub{%g\ . j/n] o! s")*sf] clUgnfO{ ;fIfL /fv]/ jw'nfO{ :jLsf/ u/L;s] kl% b"j}n] j]bsf dGqx?n] pRrf/)f ub}{ 6 j^f kljq k|lt!f ub{%g\ . oL d+qx? gLs} uxg, ;f/ule{t tyf lj:t[t ePsf] x"gfn] / oxf¤ :yfgefjn] kf&sx?nfO{ :j= bofgGbsf] ";+:sf/-ljlw" k":ts ljdz{ ug{ l;kmf/Lz u/LG% . o; kljq aGwgsf] af]w ;f+s]lts ?kdf j/-jw"sf] pkj:qsf] %]p¤nfO{ uf&f]df af¤w]/ u/LG% -'u&-aGwg'_ . o;kl% 'lznf/f]x)f' u/LG% h;df j/n] Ps ljz]if j}lbs dGqsf] pRrf/)f ub}{ jw'nfO{ Ps ;":yflkt kTy/ dfyL r(g] cfJxfg ub{% . Tof] dGqsf] cy{ xf]M "eb|] ! ltdL of] kfiff)f -kTy/_ h:t} u[x:yf>ddf b[( x"g", clnult klg ljrlnt g x"g" ." oxf¤ PskN^ km]/L j}lbs bz{gdf ;f+s]ltstf -symbolism_ sf] k|of]u k')f{?kn] :ki^ x"G% . tbgGt/ j/-jw' o! s")*sf] rf/ kl/qmdf ub{%g\ . zf:qLo b[li^sf])fn] ljjfxsf] p@]Zo wd{, cy{, sfd / df]Ifsf] k|fKtLdf ;xof]u k"¥ofpg" xf] . t;y{ ljjfxsf] ;dodf o! s")*sf] rf/ k|blIf)ff u/LG% . o; dWo] wd{, cy{ tyf sfdsf] k'lt{sf] d'Vo ;fwg :qL g} x"g\ t;y{ klxnf] tLg k|blIf)ff jw'nfO{ j/sf] cuf*L kf/]/ u/LG% . rf}yf] kl/qmdf df]Ifsf] nflu xf] h;df ;f+;fl/s aGwgaf^ d"lQmsf] dfu{ vf]lhG% . t;y{ o; dfu{df :qL :jo+g} Sjlrt\ laWg-afwf g ag"g eg]/ rf}yf] k|blIf)Ffdf j/ cuf*L x"G%g\ .

ljjfx ;+:sf/sf] ;fy ;fy} hLjgsf] bf];|f] / ;jf{lws dxTjk')f{ cf>d - 'u[x:y cf>dsf]' cf/+e x"G% . t/ u[x:y cf>ddf k|j]z ug{ cl# b"nxL ;KtkbL cyf{t\ ;ft sbd lnG%Lg h;sf] tfTko{ xf] jw'nfO{ hLjgsf] ;ft dxTjk')f{ pQ/bfloTjsf] lhDdf lbg" jf cflwsfl/)fL agfpg" . k|yd sbd cGg - hf] ;Dk')f{ hLjgsf] cfwf/ xf] - sf] /Iff ug]{ lhDdf lng" xf] . o;sf] nflu j/n] lgDg dGqsf] pRrf/)f ub{%g - 'pm¤ Oif] Ps kbL ej ;f dfdg"j|tf ej lji)f":Tjfgot" .' pQ/df jw'n] of] :ki^ ub}{ ls ltgnfO{ u[x:yLdf cGg wgflbsf] PsflwkTo k|fKt x"G% eg] - of] st{Joef/ ;xif{ :jLsf/ ub{%Lg\ .

bf];|f] sbd an k|fKtLsf] nflu xf] h;sf] nflu j/n] pRrf/)f ub{%g - 'pm¤ pmHh]{ låkbL ej o .'

o;sf] :jLs[lt lb+b} sGofn] eG%Lg 'd tkfO{sf] s"^"Dasf] /Iff ug]{%" . ;b}j dL&f] jf)fL af]Ng]%" . ;"vdf ;"vL / b"Mvdf w}o{zLn x"g] an ddf x"g]% .'

t];|f] sbd ln+bf j/n] - 'pm¤ /fo:kf]iffo lqkbL ejo .'

rf}yf] sbd ;f+;fl/s ;"v k|fKtLsf] nflu x"G% -

'pm¤ dfof]eJofo rt"ikbL ej o .'

of] sbd rfNbf sGofn] cfkm\gf] kltnfO{ ljZjf; lbnfp¤l%g\ ls ltgsf] tdfd j:q, cfe"if)f tyf >[+uf/ s]jn pgsf] nflu x"g]% .

kf¤rf} sbd - 'pm¤ k|hfEoM k¬¬¬~rkbL ej o . efjL ;+tlt tyf u[xf>dsf] st{Josf] ;+emgf u/fpgsf] nflu lnOG% cyf{t ;Gtfgf]Tklt tyf pgLx?sf] pko"{Qm kfng kf]if)f .

%}&f}+ sbd ;":jf:Yosf] nflu xf] - 'pm¤ Ct"EoM if\^kbL ejo . Ct"!fg g} :jf:Yosf] ;f¤rf] xf] . k|To]s Ct"sf] leGg leGg k|sf/sf] cfxf/ ljxf/ x"G% . To;nfO{ a"em]/ tbg"s'n cfr/)f u/]/ g} dg"io :j:Yo /xg ;Sb% . t;y{, afns cflbsf] :jf:Yosf] ef/ d"Votof cfdf dfyLg} x"g] x"gfn] 6 j^} Ct"sf] cg"s'n rof{ ug"{ eGb} j/n] cg"/f]w ub{%g\ .

oL 6 u[x wd{sf] clwsfl/)fL alg;s]kl% :qL k")f{ ?kn] k"?ifsf] cwf{légL x"G%Lg / u[x:ydf b"j} a/fa/ clwsf/sf] efuL x"G%g\ . t;y{ ;ftf}+ kbfqmd)fsf] nflu j/n] k|]d / ldqtfsf] nflu cfJxfg ub}{ eG%g\ - 'pm¤ ;vf ;KtkbL ej ;f dfdg"j|tf ej lji)f":Tjfgot" .' cyf{t\ - x] ;v] ! ca ltdL d]/L ;xwld{)fL, ;xrfl/)fL tyf cleGg cfTdf xf}+ . ;KtkbL pk/fGt ljjfxsf] sfo{ k')f{ x"G% . To;kl% u[x:yf>ddf l:y/tf /xg ;sf];\ eg]/ kltn] kTgLnfO{ w|"jtf/fsf] bz{g u/fp¤%g\ . w|"j - cfkm\gf] st{Jo / lgZrodf ;j{bf cl*u /x]/ g} ;+;f/df l:y/tfsf] k|tLs eP/ w|"jtf/f ag] . w|"j bz{g u/fp¤bf kltn] kTgLnfO{ - 'ltdLklg To; k|sf/ crn / b[( lgZroL x"g" / u[x:yf>dsf] lgod st{Jok'j{s kfng ug"{ . xfdL b"j} w|"j / o;sf] hf]*L gIfq c?GwtL ;dfg Ps csf{sf] ;fy slxNo} g %f*f}+ .' o; kl% o; ;df/f]xsf] ;dfKtLsf] ;+s]t ub}{ b"nxfn] b"nxLsf] l;p¤bf]df l;Gb"/ xfN%g\ - h;n] o; pk/fGt :qL ljjflxt ePsf] hgfp¤% . cGTodf pkl:yt hg ;d"bfo ;Dd"v b"nxf b"nxLn] zL/ em"sfP/ cflz{jfb dfU%g\ / s"^"Da tyf cltlyu)f ;a}n] gjlajflxtf dfyL k"ik tyf wfGo j[li^ u/L gj hf]*Lsf] u[x:y hLjg ;b}j wg wfGon] e/k'/ /xf];\ eGg] sfdgf ub}{ k')ff{x'lt / zflGt kf&sf] ;fy ljjfxsf] of] sd{ ;dfKt ul/G% .

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g]kfn lxGb"x?dfqsf] nflu kfjg kljq e'ld xf] . cfh ;+;f/sf] y"k|} b]zx?df lxGb"x? sf] j;f]jf; ePtfklg lxGb"dfqsf] kljq e'lddf clxn] ljZjd} g]kfn dfq lhjGt % . g]kfnn] lxGb"Tjsf] /Iffy{ b]zsf] ;+lawfgd} lxGb"/fHo eg]/ a*f] uf}/jsf ;fy #f]if)ff u/]sf] % . cfhsf] cfw"lgs o"udf ljsf;lzn g]kfnn] cfkm\gf] ;+:sf/nfO{ uf}/j ;fy cfTd ;+od ug"{ ljZjs} nflu Pp^f pbfx/)f xf] . o; kfjg e'ld g]kfndf cflb sfn b]lv g} k/d !fgL Clif d"gLx?n] tk:of u/]/ !fg k|fKt ug]{ u/]sf] s"/f xfd|f wfld{s k":tsx?df cem} klg % . lt s"/fx? ljZjsf x/]s lxGb"x?n] cf-cfkmgf efiffdf k|sflzt wfld{s k":tsx?df clxn] klg kl(/x]s} %g . o; tkf]e'lddf cgluGtL ?kdf wfld{s lty{:yn htf tt} kfpg ;lsG% . lt ;a}df klg >L kz"kltgfysf] dlGb/ cem al( dxTjsf] x"g"sf] ;fy} nf]s lk|o klg % . lzj/fqLsf] lbg o; lty{:yndf nfvf}+ eQmhgx?n] eujfg >L kz"kltgfysf] bz{g ug]{ &'nf] d]nf eg]{ ub{%g . o;d]nfdf b]z leqaf^ dfq geP/ l%d]sL d'n'sx?af^ klg eQm hgx? cfpg] ub{%g . xfn cfP/ oftfoftsf] ;"lawfn] ubf{ o; lty{:yndf x/]s lbg g} d]nf h:tf] jftfj/)f b]lvG% . cfhsn x/]s ;f¤emdf ul/g] >L kz"kltgfysf] cf/tLdf &'nf] ;+Vofdf eQmhgx?n] efulng] u/]sf] % . cf/tL k|fou/]/ cfwf#)^f ;dodf k"/ful/G%, / ;f¤Rr} g} eGg] xf] eg] ;f] ;do x]g{ / efulng nfossf] % . Tolta]nf >L kz"kltgfysf] bz{gfy{ rf/} (f]sfx? v"Nnf /flvG% . To;j]nf k|foh;f] eQmhgx?n] >L kz"kltgfydf lgTo cf/tL u/]/ cfkm\gf] ;elQm k|s^u/L /x]sf x"G%g / jftfj/)fnfO{ clt cjid/l)fo / nf]edf]xs alglbG% . kz"kltgfydf ul/g] s]lx ehgx?M