"I wasn't able to avoid going up to London
yesterday for a hospital appointment (eyes). I think I have mentioned to
you before that I hadn't been able to go on a train for the past nine or
ten years as I used to get major panic attacks.
There was no other way of getting there on this
occasion, so I bit the bullet and just did it. As you might expect, it
was fine. No anxiety at all once I bought the ticket. Quite a civilised
way to travel really! Even coming back blind as a bat wasn't a problem.
My point in writing is to say that without the
stuff you helped me with, I couldn't even have attempted this and would
certainly have just made an excuse and missed the appointment. So
thanks, Tina.
I seem to gain a greater insight into myself with
every passing day. I know that's because of the seeds of ideas you
quietly planted.
So thanks for all you've done. You're really good
at what you do. I wanted you to know that I passed a big milestone ,
with your help."

"I came along to these sessions at a very traumatic time in my life.
I felt at the lowest I feel I could ever reach. I was reluctant to pursue
counselling and it took a lot for me to be able to open up.
However Tina managed to help me find the strong person within me that I
seemed to have lost. I am now able to look forward and begin enjoying my
life again and look forward to having a social life in the future.
Although I am not ready to pursue any relationship in the near future,
Tina has made me realise that I must not close all doors to what the
future holds.
On behalf of my family and I, I would like to say a very big thankyou for
helping me find myself again."
"Counselling with Tina made me able to put things in perspective.
I was made to feel that everything I was feeling was not stupid or wrong,
but perfectly acceptable considering my experiences, and I was then able
to move forward.
I found talking to someone who did not know any of the people involved in
my problems gave me more confidence to actually say how I felt and not
pretend otherwise. It made me feel that I was perfectly normal, and not
someone who was going mad, and that I would be able to cope with my
future."
"After years of low self esteem and bouts of depression I got to the
stage that I had to do something as I was tired of suffering and
constantly blaming myself in a vicious circle.
Now looking back I wish that I had done it far earlier, but maybe had
never got the right time before.
I was surprised at a lovely warm friendly atmosphere. Tina was lovely
and I felt I had known her all my life.
I had negative feelings caused by an abusive childhood that were
deeply affecting my adult life; as you may have noticed I mentioned that
in a past tense! Within weeks the change in me was immense - I had
forgiven my mother after 38 years of suffering and mental isolation
(feeling unloved).
‘ Have no idea how it works but it does!
Also the issue of my destructive relationship was dealt with – the
problems being on my partner’s side not mine. Everything is much clearer
now in my mind.
It was refreshing to be able to openly talk about my sexual diversity
- B.D.S.M.
One thing that is very important to me that I didn’t want fixed!
All in all I have a lot to be thankful for – this experience has
given me contentment and a much better outlook on life."