Displaying the flag
What is usually called "The Confederate Flag" or "The Confederate Battle Flag" (actually the Navy Jack as explained above) is still a widely-recognized symbol. The display of the flag is a controversial and very emotional issue, generally because of disagreement over exactly what it symbolizes. To many in the US South it is simply a symbol of their heritage and pride in their ancestors who held out during years of war under terrible odds and sacrifice.[citation needed] Others see it as a symbol of the institution of slavery not knowing that Abraham Lincoln, prior to secession, offered the Southern States a 13th Amendment [Congress shall make no laws affecting the instituition of (slavery)...thereby making it permanent], or of the Jim Crow laws established by the US Congress enforcing racial segregation in the Southern States for almost a century later.[citation needed] According to Civil War historian and southerner Shelby Foote, the flag traditionally represented the south's resistance to northern political dominance generally; it became racially charged during the Civil Rights Movement, when protecting segregation suddenly became the focal point of that resistance. A 1994 Harris poll showed that 68% of blacks nationwide did not find the flag offensive. That same poll showed 92% of southern people, of all races, did not find it offensive. [2]
On April 12, 2000, the South Carolina state senate passed a bill to remove the flag of the former Confederate States of America from on top of the statehouse dome by a majority vote of 36 to 7. Placed there in 1962, according to one local news report, "the new bill specified that a more traditional version of the battle flag would be flown in front of the Capitol next to a monument honoring fallen Confederate soldiers. The bill then went to the House, where it encountered some difficulty. But on May 18, 2000, after the bill was modified to ensure that the height of the flag's new pole would be 30 feet, it was passed by a majority of 66 to 43, and Governor Jim Hodges signed the bill five days later. On July 1, the flag was removed from the South Carolina statehouse." Current state law prohibits the flag's removal from the statehouse grounds without additional legislation. Police were placed to guard this flag after several attempts by individuals to remove it. Some regard the flag as easier to see in that location than when it was atop the State House Dome.
More recent studies, however, show changing attitudes toward the Confederate battle flag, particularly among blacks - perhaps due to media reports of the issue stemming from legislative battles regarding the flag's official use in Georgia, Mississippi, and South Carolina. In 2005, two Western Carolina University researchers found that 74% of U.S. African-Americans polled favored removal of the flag from the South Carolina Capitol building. Cooper & Knotts, 2005 As battle lines over the use of the flag have (again) hardened, the NAACP and many civil rights groups have attacked the flag. Other groups such as the Sons of Confederate Veterans have actively protested the use of any Confederate flags by the Ku Klux Klan and other hate groups, stating that the hate groups are blemishing the memory of the ancestors of the SCV. Some members of the SCV have even faced down Klansmen at their rallies and marches, to protest the inappropriate usage of these flags. The NAACP maintains an official boycott of South Carolina, citing its continued use of the battle flag on its Statehouse grounds.
So, according to this article, slavery was not even an issue prior to the secession of the CSA states from the Union, since Lincoln had already conceded this point. It was all about the rights of States, and the Confederate Flag didn't become controversial till a century later during the Civil Rights Movement. Even in 1994 the majority of black Americans didn't find the flag offensive according to a Harris poll. Neither this survey, nor the 2005 one by Carolina University researchers, was confined to Southern blacks, who might well be more in favor of their regional flag than Northerners. You might as well ask Englishmen what they think about displaying the Welsh or Scottish flags. It is good to see the Sons of Confederate Veterans have protested the inappropriate use of the Rebel Flag by the KKK and similar racist rightwing groups. The flag itself is clearly perfectly legitimate, to argue otherwise is politically incorrect nonsense. Displaying of ANY flags by racist. rightwing groups is what is offensive. This applies to the British Union Jack, the Confederate Flag, the French Tricolor and many others national flags.
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I'm a Canadian sourcing the Dixie Flag's history, and this young girl's thoughts become totally irrelevant when followed by a ghoulish skeleton draped in the flag with blood dripping off a sickle. "Love, always and forever my heritage"......what a legacy and I gather it's not intentionally ironic.
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I just ran across your site and it may have been a long time ago, but I noticed someone commented on keeping the rebel flags out of schools because it may start a riot. I think the problem does not have anything to do with the flag itself but with the ignorance passed down from generation to generation. My son is 8 years old and wears rebel flags regularly and if you ask him what it stands for he will tell you that it is a Southern Battle Flag…He can even give you more history on the war than I’m sure you know. Instead of teaching your children to continue with your hatred educate them not to. Whether it offends or not it is a part of history. We don’t stop teaching kids about the holocaust because it may offend a Jewish person. Children are not pre programmed to feel hatred based on color, parents teach that. So instead of expecting the school to hide the past from your children, educate them on how stupid segregation was, on how much the world has changed and on how they can continue to change it. Don’t blame a piece of cloth for racism blame you ancestors. Don’t hide your children from the past let them learn from it. A rebel flag is part of a heritage not part of hatred. Kind of like Malcolm X who spread hatred with theories like, it’s ok for blood to be shed as long as it’s the white man bleeding. (I don’t see anyone making kids stop wearing his shirts at school.) I don’t want to get into an argument over Malcolm X, but if you’re going to hide kids from the past hide them from all of it… It’s ok to teach your kids about the man who thought killing white America was worth the price of freedom, but by God don’t tell those kids the truth that the whole Civil war started based on the fact that the South wanted to become independent from the North. The war began in 1861 when Southern states declared themselves independent by secession and formed the Confederacy. It is a fact that when the armies for the North and South were first formed, only a small minority of the soldiers on either side would have declared that the reason they joined the army was to fight either "for" or "against" slavery. The reason they joined the Army was because of the constitutional argument over whether or not a state had a right to leave the Union, and--of primary concern to most southern soldiers--the continuation of antebellum southern culture. The farmers of the south wanted “state rights” (it was the politicians in the south that wanted the right to own slaves) so as the southern farmers fought for freedom from the union the politicians secretly fought for the right to own slaves. The Southern farmers who fought weren’t even wealthy enough to own slaves. So basically the whole south and its flag have been labeled because of political misjudgment. The president is from Houston why don’t we blame Texas for the war in Iraq so in 50 years when our children’s children are learning the significance of their past maybe Texas flags will be banned from school because of the ignorance of a politician and because of the misguided story telling of uneducated parents. CC.
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hey yall i agree with everything you wrote i live in kansas but my family came from arkansas and texas andi fly the rebel flag but whenever i see somebody i
dont know they think i am racist but my cousin who is also a really good friend is black so how can i be racist i am in summer school and i have to do a
persuasive speech so i decided to do it over heritage not hate. CF
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that. I agree with all the e-mails that say the banning of rebel flags in any place is total bull it is a symbol of southern history music and
heritage and it should not be banned. I have just recently graduated from my high school in Southern Missouri where we were allowed to wear anything with
the rebel flag on it, and said the Pledge every monday unedited and believe me I was always the first to stand up and put my hand over my heart and say
it, and I wore my shirts with the Flag on it every week without fail. I have two stories to tell from my high school that involve the Flag. 1 On the
first day of my Junior year I won a Rick Steiner T-shirt( he is a very famous Pro Wrestler and I am a very huge fan of wrestling) that on the back
said "If you don't like me bite me"(his catch-phrase). I wore it for the first three periods and walking into fourth period my English teacher told
me that I would have to change it or turn it inside out well I came prepared for this situation , thanks to some advice from my wonderful mother, I said
okay I will I went to my locker and got one of my shirts with the Rebel Flag on it and changed. I walked back into the class and just sat down not a word
was said but it turns out that my English teacher was originally from Mississippi a fact that I thought was hilarious. 2 This story occured this
school year my Senior year I was sitting talking to my friends during lunch and I saw a female friend of mines boyfriend walk into the gym where
everyone hangs out during lunch and I saw him wearing a shirt with a Rebel Flag on it I thought okay he just gained some respect and I didn't pay much
attention to him until I heard him say "OH I'm not a rebel I think they're (rebels) all idiots" I turned around and asked Then why are you
wearing that shirt He then told me I only wear it 'cause it's cool I then got very angry and got right in his face and told him I don't ever want to
see you wearing anything with a Rebel Flag on it ever again. We went back and forth for a little while until we were eventually yelling at each other
then my Principal a man I highly respect and a pretty good sized boy and my history teacher another man I respect and a really big dude he's 6'8" and
probably 275 walk over and both of them break it up and the friend's boyfriend walked out of the gym talking smack the entire way, anyway after
talking with both of them I settled down and went to class but to make a long story somewhat shorter he has never wore anything with the Flag on it
or even talked about it. Those were both entertaining times sure but the last one got me to thinking I don't want my Flag worn by people who are
wearing it just to "look cool". If you know the history and the meaning behind the Flag then BY GOD WEAR and FLY it with SOUTHERN PRIDE and if you
feel like it drop me a line and tell me how you feel about it at shanerowland45@hotmail.com I check my e-mail about once a week. Once again
Tony EXCELLANT site I love it and keep on doin' what you're doin'. Yours Truly, Shane Rowland (please post on your site and PLEASE USE MY FULL NAME) Born a rebel, Raised a rebel, and BY GOD when I Die I'll die a true to the cause unreconstructed REBEL. Keep flying those stars and bars people one day the world will realize we were correct but if they don't it won't matter because we'll know we were right all along.
Thanks for your Rebel Flag stories which I'll put on the site as you wrote them.
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Hello Tony,
Yea thank you so much for what you wrote about the Dixie Flag! Here's the thing : i'm french and i've been a country music fan for all my life and i offen go to the US, i have many friends there and i was (and i'm still) very interested in the american history. I'm playing country music as well and i'm using Mypsace to promote myself and i had some argument with some narrow-minded guys because i'm using the Rebel Flag. And it really hurts my feelings when people think i'm racist and stuff coz to me the Rebel Flag, as you perfectly said, means nothing but all the beautiful things that the southern culture had brought to the world and has nothing to do with that slavery matter. As a french fellow, i know a bunch about slavery, colonies and stuff and the motto of my country has been LIBERTE EGALITE FRATERNITE (which is kinda easy to understand i guess) since 1789, so it makes me really sad when some people don't get my use of the dixie flag.
As i often reply, the apartheid in South Africa has been abolished since 1994, does it mean that its flag therefore means slavery and racism? i don't think so. Every country has its own history, its own bad past so let's not mix it up without thinking and let's focus on the good things brought by all these countries' history.
Your article really reassured me and i'm gonna post a link on my profile, so thanx again.
Sorry for my english but i bet you got what i meant.
Take care,
Florian.
I really enjoyed your website. I have lived and continue to live with the stigma that I am racist due soley to the fact that I am a proud
Of my heritage and refuse to let someone make me feel inferior because I stand tall about it, which to me is the real face of the
Rebel flag. The problem with our nation rests on the notion that we cannot hurt someones feelings, that we have to be politically correct in
order to exist in this world. When we should be teaching the truth and teaching people to believe in themselves and their heritage.
Malcom X shirts, Mexican flag shirts as well as the rebel flag can be offensive to anyone who is not fully aware of the truth behind the symbol.
I am extremely tired of saying – “no I am no racist, I have many wonderful black friends just like I have many wonderful white friends.”
The ignorance should be what is offensive. I think the flag needs to be left alone. It represents a time in history that defined who were are
now. Because I am proud of that and choose to wear that pride on my chest is no different to me than walking around with a “I love Jesus”
shirt. It is who I am, I am not ashamed of that flag now will I ever be.
Thanks for your soundboard.
Tamara Copeland ***** ***** Thanks for this poem. When I look at the Rebel Flag I think of Rockabilly, 1950s rock'n'roll, of Dixie and all the wonderful music and artists (black and white) who come from there. ***** Occasionally I look around on your website, and I must say it's a great variety, you really dig deep into a lot of subjects. That's really cool! By the time I'll retire, I hope to have something similar to have learned in my leisure. Anyway, once again a happy retirement, and I think your site is definitely something you oughta keep going! ***** ***** Tony, thanks for your website. The more we can educate people, the better. I would like to clarify some points I noticed from your readers. Northern Revisionist history has to be straightened out. Most of the misconceptions about the “Rebel” flag are a result of ignorance, lack of education and history books published in the north. Most people confuse the “Rebel” and the “Confederate” flags. Most people also do not understand the real reason for the “Civil War.” The “Stars and Bars” is the National Flag of the confederacy. The “Southern Cross” is the Rebel Flag, usually confused with the “Confederate Flag” but never a national flag of the Confederacy. After the war began, the south actually had 2 different flags of “The Confederacy.” This was due to both Union and Southern flags looking very similar, especially if there was no wind to blow the flag. It created much confusion, unnecessary loss of life so they adopted the “Battle Flag” to fly (such as the British Navy had been doing for years) to differentiate themselves from the north. The flag was not even used until early 1863, 2 years after the war began. Why did the war begin? Not due to slavery. Southern states had noticed European nations begin to free slaves because it was inhumane and began freeing slaves as early as 1850. If you read the Emancipation Proclamation, it only freed “oppressed” slaves in the south. Even Lincoln is quoted in a speech stating, “this war is not being fought over slavery, it is being fought for the Union.” The north feared losing the South’s crops agriculture, since the North needed it for their industry. Also, no slave ships were owned by any one in the south. There were northern owners. Most of the slave ships brought slaves to the West Indies and South America. Only a small percentage came to America. Also, did you know there were more “indentured servants,” a more politically correct term for “slave”, that were of Hispanic, Irish and Native American descent than African descent? Why don’t we read that in the history books? Have you ever heard of a group called “The Sons of Confederate Veterans”? This is a southern heritage group that wears the Confederate uniform, flies the Rebel Flag and attends many events. Can you believe they have several black members that wear the uniform and carry the flag? It is because of “Heritage, not Hate” that they do this. The war was not fought over slavery, it was fought over commerce. The flag has nothing to do with racism, it has to do with identifying a heritage. The slaves were also a huge investment, most southerners did not even own one, so why would they want to bring them harm. Slavery is more about working off their payment for their freedom. Most slave owners gave them a house and land after their payment was fulfilled. Most southerners worked side by side their slaves, to live, because they had to. Also, did you know the last slave owned, well after the war ended, was in the north? Anyway, I could go on, but I think there is enough here for your readers to at least start their own education process. I hope they do and I hope they help spread the word. Thank you! Robert Bean Our accepted “Stars and Stripes” flew over a slave nation for 80 years. Why not condemn this flag and ask for a new one? It is unfair. It is a symbol of unity. It does not make it a bad “flag” anyway. It is a symbol, just as the “Rebel” flag and all of our state flags. Is anyone asking Texas to change their flag because it offends Mexico? No. Also, the KKK flies the “Stars and Stripes” always, much more often is the US flag seen than the “Rebel” flag. To the reader that posted the “Swastika” comment. It used to be a religious symbol, until Hitler tilted it and ruined it’s reputation. The word "swastika" comes from the Sanskrit svastika - "su" meaning "good," "asti" meaning "to be," and "ka" as a suffix. Until the Nazis used this symbol, the swastika was used by many cultures throughout the past 3,000 years to represent life, sun, power, strength, and good luck. The swastika was a common decoration that often adorned cigarette cases, postcards, coins, and buildings. During World War I, the swastika could even be found on the shoulder patches of the American 45th Division and on the Finnish air force until after World War II. The aviator Matilde Moisant (1878–1964) was wearing a swastika medallion in 1912. The symbol was popular as a good luck charm with early aviators. A swastika was also painted on the inside of the nosecone of the Spirit of St. Louis (Thanks to “wikipedia”) We should stop people from ruining the truths about history. We must educate them. If you see something you don’t like, or understand, ask about it instead of screaming or crying about it. Maybe you will learn something. Part of our freedoms are the right to free speech, which includes expression. As an American, a true American, and I am a Native American that has ancestors who were slaves and marched on the Trail of Tears, we have the responsibility to teach our children the truth, all of it, the good and the bad. We also have the responsibility to Thank you! Robert Bean | DOBE/PD ***** thank you mm Tony's reply: ***** While your article contains much truth is does not, fact, contain the whole truth as to the Confederacy and slavery. Included is an excerpt from Wikipedia: Four of the seceding states, the Deep South states of South Carolina[1], Mississippi[2], Georgia [3], and Texas[4], issued formal declarations of causes, each of which identified the threat to slaveholders’ rights as the cause of, or a major cause of, secession; Georgia also claimed a general Federal policy of favoring Northern over Southern economic interests. In what later came to be known as the Cornerstone Speech, C.S. Vice President Alexander Stephens, declared that the "cornerstone" of the new government "rest[ed] upon the great truth that the negro is not equal to the white man; that slavery—subordination to the superior race—is his natural and normal condition. This, our new government, is the first, in the history of the world, based upon this great physical, philosophical, and moral truth" The Confederacy, by its own admission, was based on white supremacy values and was therefore a racist nation. As such, ALL of its emblems and symbols are recognized as those of racist origin. Having lived for years in the south, I have never known anyone who was not racist (or at least sympathized with them) to have flown a rebel flag. Darren H Further correspondence with Darren: While I agree that many nations have had an atrocious record on slavery and either actively embraced it or worse yet, claimed to be against it yet made profit indirectly from it. It was the fact that the Confederacy main purpose was the continuation of the slave state that makes it an issue. A perfect example is the fact that Mississippi only ratified the 13th amendment in 1995, a full 130 years after it became part of the constitution. The states all have state flags (if they include a confederate flag within that, that’s fine with me) In the U.S. we are not in the habit of flying defeated flags on government buildings. That’s why you don’t see the Union Jack on the White House flag pole. As to other symbols of the south they could use the Magnolia on a banner, t-shirt, etc. as it ONLY grows in the states that made up the confederacy. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a liberal, I think it was wrong of Disney to keep Song of the South in the vault (because it was somehow demeaning to blacks). I just think there is a much more appropriate symbol for southern culture and music. Darren. ***** hey Tony, ***** hmmm...don't mean to stir the pot here Tony, but in reference to your comment; then is it ok to start waving the swastika flag around the way the Nazi's intended it to be? I mean, after all, as you put it, "It is all ancient history", right? And by making a statement such as "Blacks and liberals in the South had better do the same", isn't that a contradiction of everything you're trying to defend? ***** From an American gay rockabilly fan: ***** Thanks, comments added to the others. Gay Yankee rockabilly fans in California, New York, etc. claim never ever to have seen the Rebel Flag at rockabilly venues, but they are lying. I've left this 'gay greasers' site because of these shallow-minded Yankees who think the Rebel Flag is unpatriotic and racist. They insult anyone who defends the flag as a symbol of Southern heritage. ***** Hello Tony, I continue to be amazed at the ignorance of Northerners and many liberals who refuse to see the Dixie flag as a legitimate symbol of the South. I resigned from a so-called 'gay greasers' Yahoo group because a load of ignorant Yankees treated it as a gay dating site and seemed to know nothing about the South, and even less about real Rockabilly music, but all pounced on me for daring to even suggest that the Dixie flag is seen at all Rockabilly/1950s rock'n'roll events as a symbol of the musical heritage of the South. ***** Yeah, I feel sorry about the stereotype that people have about the Tony's reply: **** From Linda in the UK, July 2009: I read with extreme dismay a lot of what was written on your site with reference to the Rebel flag and also the Union Jack, those who think racist will see racist, irrespective of the symbol shown, I strongly disagree that the Union Jack is a racist flag, it is a symbol of a United Kingdom, composed of three Christian flags co joined into one, like it or not this flag is a proud and venerated flag and viewed as such by the majority of the British population, irrespective of their creed or colour, that extremists have hijacked it along with the Southern battle flag does not make it a racist symbol , except in the minds of the politically correct and pseudo intellectual forever abhorring vocal crowd, I have two claims to allegiance here, one to my nation the UK, and one to the nation that foundered, the Confederate States of America. I was a member of the UKs armed forces and hold the flag of my nation in reverence, flying it continually every single day to remember those who did not return from active service and because I am proud to be British, and I also fly the Confederate flag every day, due to relatives in my family having been directly involved in that struggle for independence and I am proud of that also, on neither count am I racist, treat with the man as you would wish to be treated, but to thine own self be true. I have many friends, black, white, and of other hues and colours, and of many religions, and I am not ashamed to let them know of my beliefs and my families involvement in the war between the states on the side of the Confederacy, and my friends are genuinely interested as I present this in a purely historical way and not in any way shape or form in a racist aspect. This country, Britain is a great country, it has stood up to all kinds of mad men and tyrants, it dealt in and eventually outlawed slavery, and yes it had an empire that covered a quarter of the earths surface at its height, and yes there was institutionalised racism within the make up of that empire, the symbol of this nation is the Union Jack, and what that also stands for is decency, honesty, the rights of oppressed peoples, a safe haven, and a willingness to fight for what is right when others will not. I have visited the Southern States many times and have great liberal friends there, I love the culture and the peoples both black and white and its not the ordinary person who objects to the wearing of the flag, it’s the vociferous minority who have the political positions to make the most trouble, again I say, those who see racist think racist, be proud of your heritage and do not just give in and alter that which does not need altering, do not let others apologise on your behalf for that which happened long before any here were born, remember the decisions taken so long ago reflect the values of so long ago and should not be seen in modern terms but viewed in the historical context in which they were made, rather than changing and making new symbols lets educate and teach what the correct history of these existing symbols truly mean, and by that tell people how they reflect in this modern age as a lesson to us all, can we please stop this crazy round of political correctness and just be adult enough to realise that the world contains many peoples of many varying creeds and beliefs and maybe just maybe we would all be better off by trying to understand each other instead of trying to suppress. ***** From Mike G, in Denmark, July 2009: Hi there Mike, ***** August 2009 from Paula C: ***** September 2009 from Joanne S: My name is Joanne I am from the south specifically Florida. There have been several threats of banning the wearing of the confederate flag in my school but they have yet to do it. Why? Because even some of the blacks at my school wear the rebel flag. I think people need to realize that the rebel flag really doesn't represent slavery. It is used more commonly to represent the South. I have friends that wear the rebel flag quite often, in fact most of the people who wear it are not racist. Those who are racist don't really even understand why they are. It came to my attention last year in school when an 8th grader on my bus decided he was going to call the only black person that was on my bus a nigger and talk badly about him when 1 he doesn't know the kid and 2 he didn't even say it in front of the kid. He says his great grandfather was a member of th KKK and what not and I asked him if he even understood why he was saying the things he was saying. The only response I got was "cause I just don't like em', they're black". If you don't know this the word Nigger does not specifically mean black the word means a person of any race or origin regarded as contemptible, inferior, or ignorant. How can one associate or even use this word with blacks when it doesn't even specifically apply to them. My great grandfather is a racist but in regards to wearing the rebel flag he doesn't, he uses the strongest thing he has "his mouth". I think that the flag should be allowed because it is not the fact that you are wearing it it is how you wear it. I wear the rebel flag on occasion but I'm not a racist, my friends wear the rebel flag and they're not racist. So why is it that the racist tag has to be pinned on those who wear the confederate flag those that wear it wear it as a symbol of the South and someone who disagrees really does need a history lesson. Our country was formed as "One nation... under god" we can't even mention god in school anymore. The South is represented by the rebel flag and now we can't even use that. I strongly believe that those who call themselves racist need a reality check. It is the year 2009 now and slavery has become a thing of the past. I say leave it there in the past and don't bring it up unless you really know exactly what you're talking about.
Thanks for articulating your points in this essay. I was initially researching to attack some of my friends that are sporting the confederate flag, but a few pieces of information (arguing in favor) here are barely refutable.
One of the major reoccurring themes that appear in the following discourse are that of re-shaping ones thinking in terms of an icon like the rebel flag. To which I agree - icons can absolutely be appropriated for different purposes. However, to ignore the larger social perception or to make a claim that "you need to educate yourself on history" is admittedly an empty one, knowing that people will not. This is going to be the challenge for those that fly the flag.
I am actually in a similar battle with the Stars and Stripes right now. I am strongly liberal, very much against the war and very much against our (elected?) president. However, if I were to sport the American flag, the culture around it causes people to interpret the symbol in an opposite fashion. The American flag is not just a symbol of patriotism - it is a symbol used against liberals. I am much more patriotic than most people that I know and actually have been to other countries and recognize that indeed, this is one of the best places to live. I love my country and in such challenge the decisions that my representatives make. I'll get off my soapbox for this issue, but just wanted to give what I consider to be a similar issue.
You've changed my mind and reinforced my battle. Keep flying the rebel flag and I'll keep trying to convince people that real patriots don't wave the flag while their rights go down the tubes.
Cheers!
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OK here's the problemI have, my mom is a Northerner my dad a Southerner me and my brothers were born down South (Fl), the three of us wave the Rebel Flag with pride our grandparents told us the meaning behind the flag when we were little, everything not just what they wonted us to know, and I feel that the flag stands for Southern pride all the way. I have one in my yard right next to my red white and blue and one hanging in my living room. My mother on the other hand says I should not teach my kids to love something that shows so much hate! She is very hard headed and doesn't like to hear me when I say that I'm proud to be Southern. So should my kids my husband and her bump heads because he to is from the south? Well let's just say Thanksgiving is not really fun when we all get together because everybody has their own veiws on the matter. I'm stuck. I don't want to teach my kids that it's not OK to be proud of who and what you are. It's a shame the schools here are already doing that. Anyway how can I keep the peace with my mom's family (all Northerners) and my family (all Southerners) and show my kids the differences? They really don't know what the big deal is and I tried to explain it on both my part and my mother's and I don't like that fact that we have to fight every time someone says something about the flag
I have been meaning to ask some of my other friends about this.
I definitely think that here in the states it still has a strong
meaning of racism.
I do see a few guys have belts with the flag, or on posters now and then.
It wasn't that long ago that one of the states still had it on their
state flag, and it was removed because of the racist meaning it had.
It was the flag for the confederate states during our civil war, the
states that were fighting to keep slavery. So to me it's meaning is
one of racism. (From an American Rockabilly fan).
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Tony's reply:
Rebel Flag, y'know, slavery and all that shit. I just love
rockabilly, blues and rock n' roll (also reggae and ska) and think
that the flag symbolizes the music, not what the stereotypes make it
to , but still some rockers have the slogan "The South will rise
again!", I dunno about you, but to me that is little too much. I
myself haven't got the balls to wear the flag in any form, but IF I
had the balls, I would! The lack of balls is mostly, that if there
was a crowd offended by me wearing the flag, I think I'd get beated
up before I was able to tell what it resembles. O.M., France.


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