Dear PlanetGrrl, Please help me...........

Please help me...........I really like this guy who hangs in the same group as me, we've known each other, like, forever.  But since X-mas 1999 we've kissed a few times and I've developed feelings for him.  But I don't know how to tell him.

Dear Reader

I think he probably realised that you liked him when you were sucking face.

Ifs he got email you could always try and see if the feelings are returned, by sending him an anonymous 'I've got a crush on you' email from http://www.secretadmirer.com/

Next time you find yourself doing tonsil tennis with this guy, tell him, not like 'I love you' but maybe ask him out for a date ... suggest meeting up or a coffee, and make it clear you mean just you two.

Or use the old fashioned method of asking his mate or your mate to ask him if he likes you more than as an occasional snogging partner......

This is the dilemma we all face. ack. Oh, and it doesn't get much easier when you get older either, sorry!

The Advice Grrls