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Trust me .. when I say
NO! Whoooooa there grrls
There is a HUGE difference between a bloke of 19 and a gal of 15, gal 18
and man of 28, etc, even given the 'gals mature quicker than boys' thing. There's a huge difference in what these people would expect from a relationship ...
He is a grown man. You are a lot more vulnerable than you'd like to admit to, or even realise. I don't mean to sound patronising, just honest.
You're obviously a sussed and mature grrl for your age if your parents trust you with this bloke, but I'd really like you to take a bit of advice from the been then done that, got the 'my boyfriends in a band' t-shirt' grrls, there's something a bit suspicious about this bloke, he really shouldn't be dating gals as young as your good self ...
I can understand why you find him attractive, most guys around you at school / out and about will not seem exciting and interesting as this older and experienced bloke who has 'kissed' enough chicks to know how NOT to kiss (unlike blokes your own age, mostly ;) and knows how to flatter you, he seems exciting, sexy, cool, mature. But whoooooas there grrl.
You're last line worries me, at your age Honey you should be out there doing you're thing and not looking to stay with an older man for a long time.
All I can say is be very careful
and never
let him talk you into
anything
you're not really into or ready for. Cos you will regret it if you do. Listen to your inner grrl voice, don't get into a heavy relationship with someone who should really be with someone older than you.
After a week you have no idea if you're perfect for each other because
you don't know him yet, you're not in love, you're in lust ;)
Be careful Bex!
The Advice Grrls.
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