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This advice may sound a little harsh
"I think we as women have more to lose for being with a man (sexually, emotionally, $$$, and they will always cheat...)"
Women have more to lose ? Are you mad ? You have been watching too much daytime television victim culture shows ? You have as much to lose as you're willing to give away.
BTW - Women cheat as much as men - for sex and not cuddles too.
And what about women who have relationships with other women ? Cheating and bad communication is not restricted to mixed gender relationships Honey :)
"he claims that he wanted vengeance after I broke up with him once because he was e-cheating with ex. "
The Guy obviously has hid head stuff firmly when the sun don't shine. He was annoyed with you ? What ??? Why didn't you tackle him about this ? If the relationship was so good how come this issue hasn't been talked about after you'd got back together after he e-cheated. and WHY did you take him back, whats so great about him ? Did he make your life feel better ? Did he make you feel good about yourself ?
"My dilemma is how do I stop thinking of what he did to me and his nasty ways, how do get rid of the anxiety, how do I take him out of my head?? "
You just do it. Stop wasting time. Get out more, stop thinking of yourself as a victim of his 'evil ways'. You went back to someone who had already e-cheated with you, not an indication of the highest levels of self-esteem. Get yourself some. BEFORE you get 'someone else'. Work on YOU, pamper yourself, enjoy yourself with your mates and go out more.
You are worth more than this. Think about what you want, what you need ...
Advice Grrls
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