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As you meander down the path of life you will soon decide that life is way too short and you are much too valuable to waste time on tossers like this.
<snip special bits for Kims eyes only - all readers questions get a special personal response>
So my advice is this:
1. carry on having (protected) sex with him until you get him out of your system but play him at his own game (altho I don't advocate game playing as a rule), eg. be free as a bird, don't return all his calls, don't be emotionally involved, keep looking round for someone else AND work on your self-esteem, consider yourself single, tell people it's not serious, look after yourself (no-one else will).
or 2. just say to him I am worth more than this. We must talk about our relationship with a view to making it work (i.e. on YOUR terms: if you want 'faithful' say so, if you want un-faithful but don't want to know about who he gets off with say so) & if he won't discuss it ask yourself: do I have time for this guy? Am I not worth more than this guy? (Cos if he won't spend some time talking about it he sure as hell won't spend time working on it). And if your answers are NO and YES then tell him to fuck off or
3. (pref.) just say to him I am worth more than this & tell him to fuck off
Sadly the old adages ARE true: if he does it once he will do it again. And life is too short. And you, honey, are worth more. You can get someone else you fancy the pants off who fancies the pants off you and who doesn't treat you like shit (I KNOW you can! he IS out there).
warm fluffy regards,
Sam
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