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Dear PlanetGrrl, Please help me...........

i love this guy,and i think he loves me 2 but hes my best bud and im 2 shy to say something.he told me he`d like to hook up?!do you think it would wreck the friendship?

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Dear PlanetGrrl, Please help me...........

Help! I am in love with my best friend whom I have known most of my life. He is at Uni and I dont get to see him that often, but now we are text messaging each other and they are getting rather intimate! He is coming home soon and we are going out ( as friends ). What should I do? Should I just tell him or should I see what happens?

Dear Readers

CAUTION ! Crushes on best friends are always fraught with difficulties, and normally end in woe, especially if the crush/affection/lust/love feelings are very strong.

Don't mistake the closeness of best friendship for the closeness of the ' other sort ', ' hooking up ' might mean a diff level of ' commitment ' to you than it might mean to him.

Also, blokes, can be a tad weird about out-of-the-blue ( to them ) confessions of undying love. Its all a bit heavy you see.

We suggest reading thru our advice to another angsty reader: Crush on Friend

PlanetGrrl