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Dear PlanetGrrl, Please help me...........

Dear PlanetGrrl, Please help me. This guy and me have been mucking around for more then a while. We don't see each other much as i moved to another state but whenever i'm down on holidays i see him and we get up to the usual. We're not going out and we' weren't going out when i lived down there he was a pretty popular guy and i wasn't but we always got with each other and stuff. He always tells me not to tell anyone after we do it. And he always pretends like nothing has ever happened between us when we are with other people. I think I love him but i don't want to be used. Do you think he is just in it for sex?

Jo

Dear Jo

I'm afraid to say yes he is. He is a complete and utter waste of your time. In ten years time you'll look back and laugh at how naive and stupid you were. Next time you're on holidays don't go anywhere near him ! Tell him to get lost if he comes anywhere near you. How DARE he use you ! The only reason a man ( or woman ) will ask you to lie about having sex with them ( unless they're being unfaithful to someone else ) is because they don't think you're good enough for them, and don't want their friends knowing they're doing the wild thing with you. Nice.

But don't feel bad, it happens to a lot of us.

PlanetGrrl

 

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