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Wasting Away on the Web

 

Wasting Away on the Web

Shocking Internet sites are encouraging Anorexia as a "lifestyle"

By Natalie Barrett

It has been revealed that the number of pro-anorexia web sites is on the increase. On Yahoo! alone there are a staggering eighty-seven pro-anorexia sites for anyone to click on to.  These sites have names like Dying to be Thin, Skinny as a Rail, Stick Figures and Starving for Perfection. The sites are mostly set up by groups of American teenagers but they are encouraging girls in Britain and around the world to follow suit.

They promote eating disorders as a lifestyle and not as a serious issue, using the Internet as a platform to push young people's bodies to dangerous limits.  Girls as young as thirteen are swapping tips on weight loss and taking part in live chartrooms using names such as 'Puking Pals' and 'Anorexic with Pride.'

One site disturbingly named 'Stick Figures' gives the impression that it is providing mutual support for its visitors.  This is not the case when you browse through the pages and come across an almost aggressive instruction to follow the 'Pro-Anorexia Ten Commandments.'  These include 1. If you aren't thin you aren't beautiful 2. Being thin is more important than being healthy. 3. You must buy clothes, cut your hair, take laxatives, starve yourself, and do anything to make yourself look thinner. 4. Thou shall not eat without feeling guilty.

A 19-year-old student told about how she got hooked on the pro-anorexia site Anorexia Empress – www.geocities.com/empress_anorexianyc/page3.html.  She said that she had stumbled across it when looking for help to get over bulimia.  "I read personal stories that included "tips" they had discovered on the Internet, so I thought I'd have a look" This led to her being sucked in to exchanging information on what foods are "safe" and how to avoid having meals with parents.

When entering "pro-anorexia" into a search engine the results are astounding: hundreds of sites come up on the screen.  The home pages of the majority follow the same agenda: each one states that it is not a good idea for a person recovering from an eating disorder to enter.  They use this as a "Disclaimer" so no responsibility can be placed upon them if someone dies.  The message is also clear to non-anorexia/bulimia sufferers that if they think that this is a sick site then they should not look at it.  They also urge people not to send in emails of disgust: an obvious admission that this has already happened.

The American Government made an attempt to restrict these and other dangerous sites in 1996.  Their attempt was defeated after a campaign by the American Civil Liberties Union; which brings up the "Freedom of Speech" argument.  In Britain there has been no attempt to address the issue - the Government claims that its hands are tied as most of the material on the sites is not illegal.

Some Internet companies have taken it upon themselves to block these sites.  Lycos, one of the biggest search engines, has blocked all pro-anorexia material, although it is still accessible using other search engines or links from other sites.

It seems that without backing from the Government little can be done about these shocking web sites.  The pictures of emaciated women and tips on how to starve and get thinner without anyone noticing will still be appearing on the Internet.  All we can do is make people aware of them and encourage parents to keep an eye on what their children are clicking on to.

For more information on eating disorders, if you are yourself a sufferer or are worried about someone who is, you can contact Eating Disorders Association on 01603 621 414 (9am - 6:30pm weekdays

By Natalie Barrett

Jules note: Following this article being published we received some emails from very angry pro-anna girls.

here are some:

I'm 15 yrs old and pro-ana. I read your article about pro-anorexia sites and i would like to express my opinion to you. I completely understand where you are coming from. Anorexia is very dangerous. And then when you see people supporting anorexia I bet that you are very shocked and want to help us and put an end to all the "madness" of pro-ana. But I'll let you in on a little secret. We DON'T want help. If we wanted help we would all be FAT.We CHOOSE to go to pro-ana sites because that's what we want. And do you think that if all the pro-ana sites just vanished one day that you would have cured anorexia? Ana sites help us get through life. We meet people who actually understand us . Girls who go through the same hell as we do and it actually helps to know that there are others like you. Besides...this is a lifestyle.... what about all those freaks who are obsessed with pornography and drinking and drugs.. why don't you try to save THEM?? I just thought i'd let you know that no matter what you all do you'll never get rid of ana. Even if the sites go she's still around.
GO PRO!

THE PRO-ANA CLUBS AT YAHOO ARE NOT PROMOTING FOR PEOPLE TO BE ANOREXIC!!! THEY AREN''T SENDING OUT FLIERS OR ADDS TO JOIN THESE GROUPS, WHICH IS WHAT PROMOTING IS. THESE CLUBS ARE NOT *MAKING* OR *FORCING*  PEOPLE JOIN THEM IN BEING ANOREXIC. THE CLUBS ARE SIMPLY A PLACE FOR PEOPLE WITH ANOREXIA TO TALK TO SOMEONE, WHETHER THEY WANT TO GIVE UP ANOREXIA OR LIVE WITH IT. THEY AREN'T NEARLY AS BAD AS OTHER WEBSITES THAT DO PROMOTE THINGS LIKE PORNOGRAPHY OR CULTS OR OTHER THINGS OF THIS NATURE. THE BIBLE TELLS US FASTING IS A HOLY THING WHICH WE SHOULD DO FOR CLEANSING. OVEREATERS HAVE AS BIG OF AN EATING DISORDER IF NOT A WORSE DISORDER THAN ANOREXICS, SO TRY BOTHERING THEM FOR A CHANGE!!! AND LEAVE US ALONE!!!

To whom ever it may concern I don't think that pro anorexic sites pose any danger to anorexics, I say this because anorexia has been around long before those sites even came along, and wreather we keep them on the web or take them off it's still going to be there. cause it takes more than just pictures to make a person want to starve themselves.

Tho we did get this email which is very encouraging

Hello ...  I have struggled with anorexia and bulimia for more than half of my life. Because of my struggle, I Have decided to start something called "Young Esteem". I believe that in some weird way, society or the media has told young people and adults that thin is good and perfect. And its not the key to life. http://unchick22.homestead.com/YoungEsteem.html ( website apparently no longer active )

 

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